I really love each one of the tributes to your lovely husband, but the sous vide mango is hilarious. I clicked on the link to his bio, expecting to see a wise and venerable looking grey bearded sage, but was shocked to see how young of an old soul he is. A keeper indeed, but how lucky he was to find someone who would organise such a wonderful gift. You are clearly very well matched. Thanks for sharing, I absolutely love this post.
What a wonderful tribute! I hope he has a sense of his dispersed effects on readers, too. The article he wrote on strength training back in 2021 is what got me started lifting weights (though, it took me rereading it in 2023 to really start; the seeds took some time to germinate). My entire relationship to my body and the world has changed as a result.
What an unexpected read. Truly unique and beautiful. Whenever I have a friend who's dealing with a toxic partner, or even just a partner that doesn't give them what they deserve, I'm going to send them this article so they know what real love looks like.
Well, isn’t this just lovely? I love the tenderness and joy that are so evident in what his friends have chosen to highlight about Sasha, and I love the care that has led you to create such a beautiful gift for him. We all need a Sasha in our corner, clearly, and a Cate too.
In a short consult, Sasha noticed something about me I wasn’t ready to hear. He said it without force, and left it alone. Which is probably why it stayed with me...
Fabulous. What a lovely idea, and beautifully executed. I can add that it meant a lot to me that Sasha reviewed one of my books, and particularly that he liked the ending which he acknowledged is often hard to get right; I’ve often read it again with that sense of being seen and appreciated. The way he engaged in general stayed with me and I was sorry we never got to talk about the differences between being good at chess and being good at writing and our respective struggles with both. I hope it may still happen…
I really love each one of the tributes to your lovely husband, but the sous vide mango is hilarious. I clicked on the link to his bio, expecting to see a wise and venerable looking grey bearded sage, but was shocked to see how young of an old soul he is. A keeper indeed, but how lucky he was to find someone who would organise such a wonderful gift. You are clearly very well matched. Thanks for sharing, I absolutely love this post.
that's very kind of you to say!!
What a wonderful tribute! I hope he has a sense of his dispersed effects on readers, too. The article he wrote on strength training back in 2021 is what got me started lifting weights (though, it took me rereading it in 2023 to really start; the seeds took some time to germinate). My entire relationship to my body and the world has changed as a result.
oh wow, I will make sure he sees this!
This made me feel alive and grateful 🥲
thank you, Harrison!
This is a beautiful tribute.
What an unexpected read. Truly unique and beautiful. Whenever I have a friend who's dealing with a toxic partner, or even just a partner that doesn't give them what they deserve, I'm going to send them this article so they know what real love looks like.
This is beautiful. I feel happier just knowing that someone like this exists in the world.
I can't speak for anyone else, but if I had my dear friends say give even one of these amazing tributes, I'd consider myself blessed.
Well, isn’t this just lovely? I love the tenderness and joy that are so evident in what his friends have chosen to highlight about Sasha, and I love the care that has led you to create such a beautiful gift for him. We all need a Sasha in our corner, clearly, and a Cate too.
So lovely to read!
What a lovely birthday present. You rock
In a short consult, Sasha noticed something about me I wasn’t ready to hear. He said it without force, and left it alone. Which is probably why it stayed with me...
Beautiful list for a person who is clearly beautiful
Fabulous. What a lovely idea, and beautifully executed. I can add that it meant a lot to me that Sasha reviewed one of my books, and particularly that he liked the ending which he acknowledged is often hard to get right; I’ve often read it again with that sense of being seen and appreciated. The way he engaged in general stayed with me and I was sorry we never got to talk about the differences between being good at chess and being good at writing and our respective struggles with both. I hope it may still happen…
Dear Cate,
What a loving letter! All so beautiful.
Some of my favorite fragments:
"‘Oh, it’s so simple. After you sous vide the mango …'"
"it’s not too late. It’s never too late."
"playing bartender or scent-tender"
"the blanket is made of helpful clever words"
"The fact that the most distressed I’ve ever seen Sasha was having to play a deception game with his friends"
"he always gives me the benefit of the doubt"
"‘look, this is a pretension I have, isn’t that funny?’"
Thank you so much for sharing!
Love
Myq
Thank you so much!
This is lovely - thanks for sharing!